Parenting Strategies and the Level System

Parenting Strategies and the Level System

"10 instructions, from kids"

1- Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I should not have all that I ask for.
2- Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it; it makes me feel more secure.
3- Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4- Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk to me quietly in private.
5- Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
6- Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you." It isn't you I hate.
7- Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
8- Don't nag. If you do, I'll protect myself by not listening.
9- Don't make rash promises. Remember that I feel badly let down when promises are broken.
10- Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.